What Are Underrated Things Fathers Do?

Ep. 80 – What Are Underrated Things Fathers Do?

Dads provide a home, food, and clothing for their kids, but that’s just the start. Dads also offer guidance, love, support, and leadership in their homes, and that’s a very big deal. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about all of the underrated things dads do.

This list could go on and on forever, but we narrowed it down to a few key things. You kids may never notice you doing them. You may never get a pat on the back. But the underrated things dads do matter.

Why This Matters
The underrated things dads do are not always seen but are always felt.

Underrated Things Dads Do

1. Helping kids feel secure
2. Playing with your kids
3. Making your kids laugh
4. Setting an example in your home
5. Encouraging Independence

Important Episode Timestamps

00:55 – 02:18 | Why the Little Things Aren’t So Little
Every unnoticed effort dads make has a big impact—even if kids don’t see it in the moment.

02:18 – 04:10 | The Big Question: What Are Dads Doing That’s Underrated?
Dads today carry expectations far beyond “provider”—and it’s time to celebrate that.

04:10 – 07:11 | Being Present: The Power of Simply Showing Up
From emotional security to lifelong resilience, just being there changes everything.

07:11 – 08:57 | Providing for the Family: Financial Support as Love in Action
Provision may seem basic, but it’s a powerful and often underappreciated form of love.

08:57 – 12:13 | Play, Humor & the Power of Connection
Whether it’s Fruit Ninja or fast food and laughter, fun memories create lasting impact.

12:13 – 15:31 | Turning Tough Moments into Bonding Opportunities
How humor and humility from dads can reshape embarrassment into growth for kids.

15:31 – 17:22 | Modeling: Your Kids Are Always Watching
Even when you’re not teaching, you’re teaching. Your calm, your choices, your tone—it all sticks.

17:22 – 22:00 | Encouraging Independence: Risk, Skills, and Real Life
From driving practice to DIY toilet seats, dads empower kids to become capable adults.

22:00 – 23:15 | Pro Move of the Week:
The “little things” dads do for their kids add up and have a significant impact on their lives. So do something little today… because it matters.

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